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| Lost
Essential Quality: Hope. |
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| Compensating
Belief: The
world rewards doing, not being. |
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| Attention/Copying
Strategy: Accomplishment,
success, good image, working hard. No time for feelings, relationships. |
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| Trap: Efficiency
assures success. |
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| Driving
Energy: Self-Deception. |
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| Avoidance: Failure. |
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| Strengths: Achievement,
Competence, Enthusiasm, Leadership. |
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| Paradox: Outer
success does not bring inner fulfillment. |
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| Path
of Development |
 | Moderate
Pace. |
| Welcome
feelings. |
| Understand
failure in not disaster. |
| Love
is for person, not for accomplishment. |
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| Ultimate
Task: Reclaiming
the truth of the statement that love comes to you because of who you are
not because of what you do. |
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| The
following simple practices will assist the development of Type Threes. |
| It may
be useful to record your reactions. |
- For
the next week, make a conscious effort to moderate your pace at work
and in your personal life.
- Notice
the feelings and thoughts that arise as you make this change.
- At
the end of each day, reflect on how fulfillment can come from being
as well as from doing.
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